Questions and Answers

Dan Pink’s new book, Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us, has an excellent introduction in this short video–”Two questions that can change your life.”

It’s worth a look. It’s worth a thought. And it’s worth listening to the answers…

7 Habits gets a 10

I attended a The 7 Habits for Managers: Managing Yourself, Leading Others, Unleashing Potential seminar this week, and I don’t regret a second of the time investment. It was good stuff, well presented. My recommendation is that, when you get a chance, sit in on one; it will stir up what you already know, at the least, and very likely will give you some fresh insight and ideas about leadership.

By the way, who is a manager? All of us are–we manage ourselves (and we lead others.)

One concept Covey uses is WIG, an acronym for “Wildly Important Goals.” The The 7 Habits for Managers: Managing Yourself, Leading Others, Unleashing Potential idea is this: Plan weekly and implement daily.

A helpful part of the workshop is that each participant is given a CD with pdf and ms-word forms on it. The WIG form encourages the user to write down the top three WIGs for the week, then list objectives and tasks for each. I’ve been doing that on my computer (I call them PGA’s, though–Primary God-given Ambitions), but I see the value in writing them on paper and carrying it in my pocket. Sunday being the first day of the week, I’m going to sit down with my printed out WIGs (PGA’s) and go at it.

Try it; you’ll like it.

Harvard? Yale? Fake, but Believable…

If you have ever heard or read anything about motivation and goal setting, you’ve probably come across the 1979 Harvard study (or was it a 1953 Yale study?) You know, the one where the graduating class was asked whether or not they had written goals, and the ones who did (only 3%) had achieved more success (i.e. money) than the other 97% combined. It makes a great story and a powerful reason to set goals. Pundits like Brian Tracy, Tony Robbins, even Zig Ziglar have used it repeatedly. The problem is that neither of the studies cited actually took place. They are fake. Sham.

At least, that’s the best that I can determine. I could be wrong.

The tale seems to have begun, or at least have received a big boost, from a 1986 book by the late Mark H. McCormack: What They Don’t Teach You At Harvard Business School: Notes From A Street-Smart Executive. Fast Company ran an article on the subject, in 1996. They began by speaking with Jay Rifenbary, who had cited the Yale study in his 1995 book, No Excuse! Incorporating Core Values, Accountability, and Balance into Your Life and Career. Jay’s staff couldn’t document the reference, but pointed to the numerous motivational consultants who refer to it. So the Fast Company researchers sought the council of Tony Robbins. Here’s a blip from that article:

The CDU turned next to the reigning guru of personal achievement, chisel-jawed infomercial king Anthony Robbins. There, on page 200 of the 34th printing of his best-seller, Unlimited Power, Robbins writes, “The difference in people’s abilities to fully tap their personal resources is directly affected by their goals. A study of the 1953 graduates of Yale University … ”

To find Robbins’s source, the CDU contacted Robbins Research International (RRI) in La Jolla, California — only to learn that the files concerning Unlimited Power had “met a disastrous end.” RRI referred the CDU to personal effectiveness consultant Brian Tracy, who directed the CDU to the dean of motivational speakers, Zig Ziglar.

Sure enough, in the middle of his best-selling video, Goals, Setting and Achieving Them on Schedule, the evangelical Ziglar drops to his knees and cites — you guessed it — the study of the Class of 1953. “Those 3%,” preaches Ziglar, “accomplished more than the 97% combined who had not set those goals.”

But where had Ziglar found the study? It would be hard to pin down, explained a spokesperson from Ziglar’s Dallas headquarters: “Mr. Ziglar is always reading. He reads more than two hours a day!” One possible source — “Try Tony Robbins.”

Now, look, don’t get me wrong. I don’t share the magazine’s derision of Robbins, Tracy, and Ziglar–I admire those guys, every one of them–but, you must admit; it’s a funny story. Here’s why I tell it. Here’s an important thing to remember: Don’t believe everything you hear or read–even if the source is someone you have trusted for years. They could be wrong. They could be repeating something they believe, but is absolutely untrue. Check the source, and if there is no credible source to be found; beware.

What really amazes me is how two people can witness the same event and come away with two different stories. Has that ever happened to you? What causes that? The first time it happened to me, I just figured that the other person was deluded. The more I’ve reflected on the phenomenon, though, the more I think it is this: We believe what we want to believe. In a major way, we create our own reality–and God help anyone who tries to convince us otherwise.

The bottom line for Turnaround Theory is this (straight from Brian Tracy’s book, Goals! How to Get Everything You Want–Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible :)

You become what you think about most of the time… successful people think and talk about what they want, most of the time. Unsuccessful people think and talk about what they don’t want, most of the time.

Way to go, Zoho…

index If you haven’t done so, yet, here’s your chance to claim your spot on Zoho. To date, it is the best cloud-based (or Earth-based) online work site that I’ve yet found. I’m not getting paid to say that, by the way. It just is.

I stumbled onto the Zoho website while searching for a project management template. The entry level array of services is more than ample, and the cost is just right: Free. I’d tell you more about it, but I need to head back over there and get better acquainted with how to utilize the tools available. Tomorrow, I’m scheduled to show two of my co-workers how to get going with Zoho, so that we can begin using it for distance collaboration. Yes!

Here’s that link, in case you missed it: http://www.zoho.com

Adios, Jim Rohn

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Turn-Around legend, Jim Rohn, passed on today. He is and will be missed by many. He was a master of the basics and an inspiration to all.

Jim’s story is a classic RoadTurn. He came from a rural town and modest means, dropped out of college to marry his sweetheart, then discovered that it’s tough to support a family on wages. Providence brought him to work under a mentor–John Earl Shoaff–and it was there that Jim learned the first secret of success: There are just a few things that can make a big difference in your life. Find those and concentrate on doing them.

Mr. Rohn went on to become one of the most celebrated professional speakers of all time and a millionaire by age 31. Following are a few quotes from Jim and from the memorial tribute on the Jim Rohn International website. May the Creator continue to bless and keep Jim Rohn and take special care of his family.

Harold Dyke, long time close friend of Jim’s for over 55 years said it best, “As Jim is ending one life he is simultaneously being birthed into a new life. One that he has talked about over the years and anticipated with great joy in his last remaining days.”

Someone once said “when you are born you enter the world crying while everyone else is rejoicing and when you die hopefully you have lived such a life that everyone will be crying while you are rejoicing”. Jim Rohn lived such a life.

Don’t just read the easy stuff. You may be entertained by it, but you will never grow from it.

Effective communication is 20% what you know and 80% how you feel about what you know.

Give whatever you are doing and whoever you are with the gift of your attention.

Finding Yourself: A Fresh Start

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It used to be that Armistice Day (aka Veterans Day) was the one day of the year when I was sure to wear a tie. It was out of respect for those who have fought for Freedom. My own experience in the armed forces was rather serene, compared to what others have endured. I wanted to show my appreciation and admiration for the real heroes.

The original Armistice Day was November 11, 1918…the 11th month, the 11th day, on the 11th hour…and it was hailed as the end of the “War to end all wars.” I wish it were so, but it hasn’t turned out that way. Millions more have died in armed conflict…on our streets and on the battlefield. God, help us all.

So it is that I took a fresh look at Armistice today, and here is my conclusion: I’m looking for the Peace that ends all war, and I hope it begins today. What if the whole world were to stop and listen? What would happen then?

In my own life, I’ve begun a fresh assessment of who I am and where I’m headed. The best place to begin is in the beginning, so why not return there and re-evaluate? Can’t hurt. The template I am using was developed by a guy whose marketing techniques seem a little too red and blue, but it’s a solid program with an active and supportive forum.

Check it out and join me. Here’s a link: Finding Yourself.